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Pope v. Pope, 2017 UT App 24

Case Summary

Greg J. Pope (Father) appealed from the district court’s memorandum decision and decree of divorce, challenging the court’s custody determination following his divorce from Carmen R. Pope (Mother). Father and Mother married in 2009, had two children, and filed for divorce in 2013, sharing joint legal and physical custody in the interim. After a three-day bench trial, the district court awarded the parties joint legal and physical custody but named Mother the primary custodian and ordered that the children attend school in Mother’s neighborhood. Father challenged the court’s findings on several statutory custody factors — moral character and emotional stability, personal versus surrogate care, and financial condition — as well as the school-change ruling and the court’s decision to permit Mother’s fiancé to testify despite a witness-exclusion-rule violation. The Utah Court of Appeals affirmed on all issues.

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Marriage, Divorce Filing, and Custody Trial

  • Father and Mother married in 2009 and filed for divorce in 2013.
  • The parties have two minor children and shared joint legal and physical custody following separation.
  • A three-day bench trial addressed, among other issues, which parent should be the children’s primary custodian and which school the children should attend.
  • The district court awarded joint legal and physical custody but designated Mother as primary custodian and ordered a change of schools to Mother’s neighborhood school.
  • Father filed a post-trial motion to amend and enter new judgment, which the district court denied in a written decision that further explained its reasoning; Father raised the same challenges on appeal.

Moral Character and Emotional Stability — Online Conduct

  • Mother testified that, near the end of the marriage, she discovered text messages, emails, and a thumb drive on Father’s devices suggesting he responded to an online classified ad and, according to Mother, admitted to illegal conduct when confronted.
  • Mother testified the emails and thumb drive were later lost or destroyed.
  • Father admitted to viewing pornography but denied posting online ads to meet people for sexual activity, denied sending messages to arrange meetings, denied possessing a thumb drive with nude photos, and denied that Mother ever confronted him about the allegations.
  • The district court found Mother credible as to “online dating and involvement with pornography” but found it speculative that Father’s conduct was criminal rather than merely “distasteful,” and concluded Father’s categorical denials called his veracity and honesty into question.
  • The court acknowledged Mother had also engaged in “questionable conduct” online and found the children’s safety was never at risk from either parent’s online activity.
  • The court instead based its moral-character determination primarily on a separate, undisputed incident: Father brought his two-year-old son with him during a criminal episode in Maryland in which Father attempted to extort money from another person, resulting in a felony conviction.

Personal Versus Surrogate Care and Living Situation

  • Father worked part time on the night shift as a janitor, leaving his weekdays available for childcare, and lived in a basement apartment in his mother’s (Grandmother’s) home.
  • Father put the children to bed before leaving for his night shift; the basement apartment had its own exterior entrance (locked while he was away) and an internal staircase connecting to Grandmother’s main floor.
  • Grandmother testified she could hear the children and would attend to them if needed, and that she and Father encouraged the children to treat the basement as a separate, distinct living space (“dad’s house” versus “grandma’s house”).
  • The district court expressed concern that the children were left “unattended” overnight and was not convinced they would be timely and adequately cared for in an emergency.
  • The court found Father’s part-time work-and-cohabitation arrangement financially unsustainable long term, noting Grandmother testified she expected Father to eventually become self-sustaining and move out.
  • The court ultimately found the personal-care factor favored Father in the short term but would become neutral over time given the instability of his financial situation.

Financial Condition

  • The district court considered the income of Mother’s fiancé, who planned to make long-term financial contributions to the children’s care, in assessing Mother’s financial circumstances.
  • The court declined to similarly credit Grandmother’s income toward Father’s financial circumstances because neither Father nor Grandmother presented evidence that Grandmother financially contributed to the children’s care or support, and Grandmother testified she expected Father to move out in the near future.
  • Father paid Grandmother approximately $200 per month toward living expenses in the basement apartment.

School Change

  • The children were doing well at their existing school, and Father testified he wanted them to continue there, citing its ethnic diversity.
  • Father did not argue at trial that a school change would emotionally harm the children, relying instead in his post-trial motion and on appeal on the general assertion that changing schools is highly traumatic for young children, without presenting supporting evidence.
  • The district court found the school in Father’s neighborhood ranked 525th of 561 elementary schools statewide, with standardized test scores of 52.53 (language arts) and 59.25 (math), compared to the school in Mother’s neighborhood, ranked 78th, with scores of 86.30 (language arts) and 88.17 (math).
  • The court ordered the children to attend school in Mother’s neighborhood based on this academic disparity.

Witness Exclusion Issue

  • Mother’s fiancé was on the original witness list but was not expected to testify and so was not excluded from the courtroom when the witness-exclusion rule was invoked.
  • After hearing trial testimony touching on the fiancé’s role in the children’s lives, the trial judge stated, “I think I need to hear from him,” and called the fiancé to testify at the court’s own request.
  • Father challenged the fiancé’s testimony on appeal as a violation of the witness-exclusion rule under Utah Rule of Evidence 615.

Issues of the Case

Father raised five issues on appeal, each challenging a finding or ruling from the district court’s custody determination and decree of divorce.

  • Issue 1: Moral Character and Emotional Stability Factor
  • Issue 2: Personal Versus Surrogate Care Factor
  • Issue 3: Financial Condition Factor
  • Issue 4: School Change Determination
  • Issue 5: Admission of Fiancé’s Testimony Despite Witness-Exclusion-Rule Violation

The Utah Court of Appeals affirmed the district court on every issue; no finding or ruling was reversed or remanded.

  • Custody & Parent Time – Best Interests of the Child

    1. Moral Character and Emotional Stability Factor

    Claim on Appeal: Father argued the district court’s findings were internally inconsistent — that the court could not credit Mother’s testimony about his online conduct while also finding insufficient evidence of criminal activity, and could not fault his denials as dishonest on that basis.

    Holding: — Affirmed. The findings were not inconsistent; the court reasonably found Father engaged in online romantic contact (believing Mother’s account) while separately finding the evidence too speculative to establish criminal conduct, and in any event the factor turned primarily on Father’s undisputed Maryland felony, not the online-conduct allegations.

    Statutory Authority: Not specifically cited by section number in the opinion; the court applied the customary best-interest custody factors, including moral character and emotional stability, without naming a Utah Code provision.

    Standard of Review:

    • Clearly erroneous — a trial court’s factual findings will not be disturbed unless they conflict with the clear weight of the evidence or the appellate court has a definite and firm conviction a mistake was made.

    Controlling Cases:

    • Robertson v. Robertson, 2016 UT App 55, 370 P.3d 569 (stating the clearly-erroneous standard for factual findings).
    • Valcarce v. Fitzgerald, 961 P.2d 305 (Utah 1998) (plurality opinion) (trial courts have wide latitude to assess witness credibility and weigh conflicting testimony).

    Why It Matters: This issue underscores the deference appellate courts give to a trial court’s credibility determinations, even when the court reaches nuanced, seemingly split findings (crediting a witness’s account of conduct while declining to find the conduct criminal). Practitioners should recognize that a trial court may find testimony credible on one dimension without accepting every characterization or legal conclusion urged by that testimony, and such nuance is not, by itself, grounds for reversal.

    1. Moral Character and Emotional Stability Factor

    Claim on Appeal: Father argued the district court’s findings were internally inconsistent — that the court could not credit Mother’s testimony about his online conduct while also finding insufficient evidence of criminal activity, and could not fault his denials as dishonest on that basis.

    Holding: — Affirmed. The findings were not inconsistent; the court reasonably found Father engaged in online romantic contact (believing Mother’s account) while separately finding the evidence too speculative to establish criminal conduct, and in any event the factor turned primarily on Father’s undisputed Maryland felony, not the online-conduct allegations.

    Statutory Authority: Not specifically cited by section number in the opinion; the court applied the customary best-interest custody factors, including moral character and emotional stability, without naming a Utah Code provision.

    Standard of Review:

    • Clearly erroneous — a trial court’s factual findings will not be disturbed unless they conflict with the clear weight of the evidence or the appellate court has a definite and firm conviction a mistake was made.

    Controlling Cases:

    • Robertson v. Robertson, 2016 UT App 55, 370 P.3d 569 (stating the clearly-erroneous standard for factual findings).
    • Valcarce v. Fitzgerald, 961 P.2d 305 (Utah 1998) (plurality opinion) (trial courts have wide latitude to assess witness credibility and weigh conflicting testimony).

    Why It Matters: This issue underscores the deference appellate courts give to a trial court’s credibility determinations, even when the court reaches nuanced, seemingly split findings (crediting a witness’s account of conduct while declining to find the conduct criminal). Practitioners should recognize that a trial court may find testimony credible on one dimension without accepting every characterization or legal conclusion urged by that testimony, and such nuance is not, by itself, grounds for reversal.

  • Custody & Parent Time – Best Interests of the Child

    1. Personal Versus Surrogate Care Factor

    Claim on Appeal: Father argued the district court clearly erred in finding the children were left “unattended” overnight while he worked, given that Grandmother lived upstairs and could hear and assist them if needed.

    Holding: — Affirmed. Although Grandmother was present in the home, the court’s skepticism that the children would be timely and adequately cared for in an emergency was not clearly erroneous given the physically separate basement apartment; the court did not exceed its discretion in finding the factor favored Father short term but would become neutral long term due to the unsustainability of his part-time work and living arrangement.

    Statutory Authority: Not specifically cited by section number in the opinion; applied as part of the customary best-interest custody-factor analysis (personal versus surrogate care).

    Standard of Review:

    • Clearly erroneous — as to the district court’s factual findings regarding the children’s overnight care and Father’s employment stability.

    Controlling Cases:

    • In re B.R., 2007 UT 82, 171 P.3d 435 (an appellate court may not reweigh the evidence where a foundation for the trial court’s decision exists in the record).

    Why It Matters: The decision illustrates that a physically distinct living space (separate entrance, separate address in the child’s mind) can support a finding of inadequate overnight supervision even where a relative resides in the same structure. It also confirms that a custody factor may be found to favor a parent only temporarily, based on an assessment of the sustainability of that parent’s current employment and housing arrangement.

  • Custody & Parent Time – Best Interests of the Child

    1. Financial Condition Factor

    Claim on Appeal: Father argued the district court inconsistently considered the income of Mother’s fiancé (a non-party) in Mother’s favor while refusing to consider Grandmother’s income (also a non-party) in his favor.

    Holding: — Affirmed. The court did not err because, unlike Mother’s fiancé, neither Father nor Grandmother presented evidence that Grandmother financially contributed to the children’s care, and Grandmother testified she expected Father to move out in the near future, distinguishing the two situations.

    Statutory Authority: Not specifically cited by section number in the opinion; applied as part of the customary best-interest custody-factor analysis (relative financial condition of the parties).

    Standard of Review:

    • Clearly erroneous — as to the district court’s factual findings regarding each household’s financial circumstances and contributions.

    Controlling Cases:

    • In re B.R., 2007 UT 82, 171 P.3d 435 (no reweighing of evidence where a foundation exists in the record).

    Why It Matters: This holding clarifies that a third party’s income is relevant to a custody factor only where there is an evidentiary basis for ongoing financial contribution to the children’s care — a distinction practitioners should build a record around when arguing that a new partner’s or relative’s finances should (or should not) be imputed to a parent’s household.

  • Custody & Parent-Time — School Choice

    1. School Change Determination

    Claim on Appeal: Father argued the district court improperly relied on published school-ranking data rather than adequately weighing the emotional impact of uprooting the children from a school where they were thriving.

    Holding: — Affirmed. Father presented no evidence — general or specific — that a school change would emotionally harm these children; given the significant, court-documented gap in academic performance between the two schools, it was within the court’s discretion to order the change.

    Statutory Authority: Not specifically cited by section number in the opinion; applied as part of the customary best-interest custody-factor analysis (school and educational considerations).

    Standard of Review:

    • Clearly erroneous / abuse of discretion — deference to the trial court’s weighing of educational and best-interest evidence.

    Controlling Cases:

    • State v. Guard, 2015 UT 96, 371 P.3d 1 (an issue must be supported by evidence and relevant legal authority to succeed).

    Why It Matters: The court’s reliance on concrete, comparative academic performance data — in the absence of any competing evidence of emotional harm — reinforces that unsupported assertions about a child’s well-being, however intuitively appealing, will not overcome a well-documented factual record on the other side.

  • Evidence — Witness Exclusion

    1. Admission of Fiancé’s Testimony Despite Witness-Exclusion-Rule Violation

    Claim on Appeal: Father argued the district court exceeded its discretion by allowing Mother’s fiancé to testify after he remained in the courtroom during trial in violation of the witness-exclusion rule invoked under Utah Rule of Evidence 615.

    Holding: — Affirmed. The trial court has considerable discretion to permit testimony despite a Rule 615 violation, and Father — who bore the burden of showing prejudice, including that the witness materially changed his testimony because of what he heard — made no such showing.

    Statutory Authority: Utah R. Evid. 615 (witness-exclusion rule).

    Standard of Review:

    • Abuse of discretion — with added deference to evidentiary rulings in a bench trial as opposed to a jury trial.

    Controlling Cases:

    • State v. Gibson, 2016 UT App 15, 366 P.3d 876 (trial court retains discretion to permit testimony despite a Rule 615 violation; objecting party bears the burden of showing prejudice).
    • State v. Carlson, 635 P.2d 72 (Utah 1981) (source of the discretion-and-prejudice standard adopted in Gibson).
    • State v. McGrath, 749 P.2d 631 (Utah 1988) (prejudice requires showing the witness materially changed testimony because of what was heard).
    • State v. Curtis, 2013 UT App 287, 317 P.3d 968 (explaining the purpose of the witness-exclusion rule).
    • State v. Park, 404 P.2d 677 (Utah 1965) (greater deference to evidentiary rulings in bench trials).

    Why It Matters: This issue confirms that a Rule 615 violation is not automatically disqualifying, particularly where the court itself calls the witness and the objecting party cannot point to specific evidence that the witness’s testimony was tainted. Counsel seeking to exclude a witness after a Rule 615 violation must be prepared to affirmatively demonstrate — not merely speculate about — resulting prejudice.

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Case Cited

  • Robertson v. Robertson, 2016 UT App 55, 370 P.3d 569 (source of the clearly-erroneous standard of review for a trial court’s factual findings).
  • State v. Gibson, 2016 UT App 15, 366 P.3d 876 (trial court discretion to permit testimony despite a witness-exclusion-rule violation; objecting party’s burden to show prejudice).
  • State v. Carlson, 635 P.2d 72 (Utah 1981) (origin of the discretion-and-prejudice standard applied in Gibson).
  • Valcarce v. Fitzgerald, 961 P.2d 305 (Utah 1998) (plurality opinion) (trial courts’ wide latitude to weigh conflicting testimony and assess credibility).
  • In re B.R., 2007 UT 82, 171 P.3d 435 (appellate court may not reweigh evidence where a foundation for the trial court’s decision exists in the record).
  • State v. Guard, 2015 UT 96, 371 P.3d 1 (an issue must be supported by evidence and relevant legal authority).
  • State v. Curtis, 2013 UT App 287, 317 P.3d 968 (purpose of the witness-exclusion rule — preventing testimony from being tainted by other witnesses’ testimony).
  • State v. McGrath, 749 P.2d 631 (Utah 1988) (prejudice from a witness-exclusion-rule violation requires showing the witness materially changed testimony).
  • State v. Park, 404 P.2d 677 (Utah 1965) (greater deference given to evidentiary rulings in bench trials than in jury trials).

Litigation and Appellate Strategy

Reversal Predictor

  • A trial court’s factual findings that are demonstrably inconsistent on their face, with no plausible reconciling explanation apparent from the record.
  • A clear, evidenced showing that a witness admitted at trial despite a Rule 615 violation materially altered his or her testimony based on what was overheard.
  • A custody or school-change ruling based on data or rankings that is contradicted by other record evidence the trial court failed to address.
  • A finding on a best-interest factor unsupported by any evidentiary foundation in the record, such that the appellate court would be reweighing rather than reviewing the evidence.

Mandatory Factor Checklist

  • Moral character and emotional stability of each parent.
  • Relative ability to provide personal (rather than surrogate) care.
  • Relative financial condition and stability of each household.
  • Educational considerations, including comparative school quality, when a school change is proposed.

Signal Cluster (High-Risk Appeal Profile)

  • Appellant challenges multiple fact-bound custody findings without identifying a specific, documented inconsistency in the trial court’s reasoning.
  • Appellant’s strongest argument (e.g., emotional harm from a school change) rests on a generalized assertion rather than case-specific evidence.
  • Appellant asserts prejudice from an evidentiary rule violation without evidence that the challenged testimony was actually influenced by the violation.
  • Together, these gaps signal a low-probability appeal under the clearly-erroneous / abuse-of-discretion framework applied here.

Strategy Insight

Father’s appeal was framed largely as a factual and evidentiary dispute — asking the court of appeals to re-examine credibility calls, weigh school-ranking data against unsupported claims of emotional harm, and second-guess a discretionary evidentiary ruling. Because Utah appellate courts extend substantial deference to exactly these kinds of determinations, appeals are far stronger when framed around genuine legal error (e.g., misapplication of a legal standard, failure to apply a required factor at all) rather than disagreement with how the trial court weighed conflicting evidence it was entitled to weigh.

 

Insights

Utah-Only Jurisprudence

The opinion relies exclusively on Utah authority — Utah Court of Appeals and Utah Supreme Court decisions — for every standard of review and evidentiary rule it applies. No out-of-state or federal authority is cited, reflecting the highly deferential, fact-bound nature of Utah custody appeals and Rule 615 practice.

Doctrinal Anchors (Utah Supreme Court)

  • Valcarce v. Fitzgerald, 961 P.2d 305 (Utah 1998) (plurality) — establishes that trial courts have wide latitude to resolve conflicting testimony and assess credibility; anchors the court’s rejection of Father’s “internally inconsistent findings” argument on the moral-character factor.
  • In re B.R., 2007 UT 82, 171 P.3d 435 — establishes that an appellate court may not reweigh the evidence once a foundation for the trial court’s decision exists in the record; anchors the affirmance of the personal-care and financial-condition findings.
  • State v. Carlson, 635 P.2d 72 (Utah 1981) — establishes the trial court’s discretion, and the objecting party’s burden to show prejudice, when a witness testifies despite a Rule 615 violation; anchors the affirmance on the fiancé’s testimony.

The Most Important Holding

The most significant holding is the court’s treatment of the witness-exclusion issue: a trial court may, on its own initiative, call a witness who violated Rule 615 by remaining in the courtroom, and the resulting testimony will not be disturbed absent an affirmative showing that the witness materially changed his or her testimony because of what was heard. This gives trial courts meaningful latitude to gather relevant testimony — even sua sponte — without automatically triggering exclusion for a technical rule violation.

Reversal Based on Legal Error vs. Factual Error

The court affirmed in full; no legal or factual error was found on any of the five issues raised. Reversal would likely have required Father to show either (1) that the district court’s factual findings conflicted with the clear weight of the evidence (as opposed to simply being subject to a different weighing), or (2) that he was actually prejudiced by the Rule 615 violation through evidence that the fiancé’s testimony changed because of what he overheard. Father supplied neither, and his emotional-harm argument on the school-change issue failed for lack of any supporting evidence at all.

Multigenerational Household / Grandparent-Subsidized Housing

The opinion offers a useful data point for cases involving a parent living with, and financially supported by, an extended family member: courts may distinguish a grandparent’s or relative’s in-kind housing subsidy (which does not by itself establish financial stability) from a new partner’s demonstrated intent to make ongoing contributions toward the children’s support, treating the two differently for purposes of the financial-condition custody factor.

Practitioner Takeaways

  • Trial Lawyers: Build a granular evidentiary record on custody factors — bare assertions (e.g., that changing schools is inherently traumatic) will not survive appeal without supporting evidence specific to the children involved.
  • Trial Lawyers: When a Rule 615 violation occurs, move promptly to develop a record establishing how the witness’s testimony was influenced by what was overheard; a generalized objection to the violation, without evidence of a resulting change in testimony, will not preserve a winning appellate argument.
  • Appellate Lawyers: Challenges to a trial court’s fact-bound custody findings face a steep clearly-erroneous standard; frame arguments around demonstrable inconsistency in the record rather than asking the appellate court to reweigh credibility determinations.
  • Self-Represented / Multigenerational Households: Parents relying on a relative’s home for childcare support should be prepared to show, with specific evidence, both the adequacy of overnight supervision and any financial contribution the relative makes to the children’s care — general availability or goodwill is not enough.

Majority Opinion

2017 UT App 24 THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS

GREG J. POPE, Appellant, v. CARMEN R. POPE, Appellee.

Memorandum Decision No. 20150869-CA Filed February 9, 2017 Third District Court, Salt Lake Department

The Honorable Barry G. Lawrence No. 134904171

Marshall Thompson and Emily Adams, Attorneys for Appellant Russell Yauney, Attorney for Appellee

JUDGE STEPHEN L. ROTH authored this Memorandum Decision, in which JUDGES MICHELE M. CHRISTIANSEN and KATE A. TOOMEY concurred. ROTH, Judge:

¶1 Greg J. Pope (Father) appeals from the district court’s memorandum decision and decree of divorce, particularly the court’s custody determination. We affirm.

¶2 Father and Carmen R. Pope (Mother) wed in 2009. In 2013 they filed for divorce. The parties have two children and shared joint legal and physical custody of the children following their separation. In a three day bench trial, the parties contested, among other things, which parent should be the children’s primary custodian and which school the children should attend. Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 2 2017 UT App 24

¶3 Following trial, the district court entered a detailed and thorough memorandum decision in which it made findings of fact and conclusions of law regarding custody of the children. The court ultimately determined that the parties should have joint legal and physical custody of the children, but that Mother should be the children’s primary custodian and that the children should attend school in Mother’s neighborhood. Father challenged the court’s ruling in a post-trial motion to amend and enter new judgment. Specifically, Father contested the court’s findings regarding several custody factors—moral character and emotional stability, ability to provide personal rather than surrogate care, and financial condition—and its determination that the children should attend school in Mother’s neighborhood. He also challenged the district court’s decision to permit Mother’s fiancé to testify at trial despite the fact that the fiancé, who was not expected to testify, had remained in the courtroom after the witness exclusion rule was invoked. See generally Utah R. Evid. 615 (‚At a party’s request, the court must order witnesses excluded so that they cannot hear other witnesses’ testimony.‛). The district court denied Father’s motion in a written decision in which the court further explained its reasoning.

¶4 On appeal, Father raises the same challenges to the district court’s findings that were addressed in his post-trial motion. ‚We will not disturb a trial court’s findings of fact unless they are clearly erroneous, that is, unless they are in conflict with the clear weight of the evidence, or this court has a definite and firm conviction that a mistake has been made.‛ Robertson v. Robertson, 2016 UT App 55, ¶ 5, 370 P.3d 569 (ellipsis, citation, and internal quotation marks omitted). And we afford ‚a trial court . . . considerable ‘discretion to decide whether a defendant will be prejudiced by permitting a witness to testify in the face of a violation of the [witness exclusion+ rule.’‛ See State v. Gibson, 2016 UT App 15, ¶ 13, 366 P.3d 876 (alteration in original) (quoting State v. Carlson, 635 P.2d 72, 74 (Utah 1981)). Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 3 2017 UT App 24

¶5 Father first asserts that the district court’s determination that the moral character and emotional stability factors weighed in favor of Mother was contrary to the evidence. He specifically takes issue with the court’s finding that Father’s ‚categorical denials‛ of alleged online misconduct called into ‚question his veracity and honesty.‛ At trial, Mother testified that, toward the end of the marriage, she found text messages and emails on Father’s phone and computer from people responding to a classified ad Father had posted online. According to Mother, some of these emails indicated that Father was engaged in illegal activity, while others suggested simply personal relationships. Mother further testified that, when she confronted Father with the emails, he admitted to illegal conduct. Mother also testified that she found nude photos of Father and other individuals on a thumb drive belonging to Father. She also testified, however, that both the thumb drive and the emails were either lost or destroyed. While Father admitted to having viewed pornography, he denied having posted online ads ‚to try to find people to meet up with‛ or ‚to try to engage in any sort of sexual activity with anybody.‛ He also denied having sent any messages arranging ‚to meet up with people,‛ or ever possessing a thumb drive with nude photos of himself and others on it. Lastly, Father denied that Mother ever confronted him about messages or photos and claimed that the first time he had ever heard any such allegations was in court.

¶6 The district court made the following findings about Father’s online activities: While the Court found [Mother] to be credible regarding some of those events—i.e., online dating and involvement with pornography—it was speculative that *Father’s+ conduct was criminal as opposed to distasteful. And, there was nothing indicating that the Minor Children’s well-being or safety was ever at risk as a result of *Father’s+ Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 4 2017 UT App 24 alleged activities, whatever they may have been . . . . Finally, although there was nothing solidly linking [Father] to defined criminal behavior, the Court did find [Mother] to be a credible witness. Thus, *Father’s+ categorical denials of the alleged conduct causes the Court to question his veracity and honesty. Father maintains that the court could not have simultaneously determined both that Mother was credible and that he had not engaged in criminal conduct. He likewise asserts that the court could not have found his denials to be dishonest when the court itself determined that the evidence was insufficient to demonstrate that he engaged in any illegality. Thus, Father argues that the district court’s determination that the moral character and emotional stability factors weighed in favor of Mother was clearly erroneous.

¶7 We cannot agree with Father’s assertion that the district court’s findings regarding the illegal activity allegations were internally inconsistent. Trial courts are accorded wide latitude in determining factual matters. They are in the best position to assess the credibility of the witnesses and to gain a sense of the proceeding as a whole. Where contradictory testimony is offered by two witnesses, the fact finder is free to weigh the conflicting evidence presented and to draw its own conclusions. Valcarce v. Fitzgerald, 961 P.2d 305, 314 (Utah 1998) (plurality opinion) (alteration, citations, and internal quotation marks omitted). A careful reading of the findings indicates that the court believed Mother’s account that Father was involved in meeting for romantic liaisons with people he met through the internet—what the court referred to as ‚online dating.‛ Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 5 2017 UT App 24 However, the court believed the evidence was ‚speculative‛ as to whether Father’s ‚conduct was criminal as opposed to distasteful.‛ In light of Mother’s testimony, it was not clearly erroneous for the district court to conclude that Father was engaged in some form of romantic contact with individuals he met online and that Father’s categorical denials of such activity were disingenuous, while not going so far as to conclude that Father engaged in anything unlawful

. ¶8 In any event, it is apparent that Father’s alleged activities did little to influence the district court’s ultimate determination that the moral character and emotional stability factors favored Mother. Indeed, the court acknowledged that Mother had likewise engaged in ‚questionable conduct‛ online and concluded that, whatever the nature of Father’s behavior had been, there ‚was nothing indicating that the Minor Children’s well-being or safety was ever at risk‛ because of it. Thus, the court did not appear to demonstrate a preference for either parent based on their respective online dating behavior. Rather, the court explained that the primary factor contributing to its decision on this issue was that Father had taken his two-year-old son with him during a criminal episode in Maryland in which he attempted to extort money from another individual, and Father’s resulting felony conviction.

¶9 In its findings, the court explained that Father showed a ‚lack of judgment‛ by ‚having his child present during the events of that crime,‛ that Father did not ‚convince the Court that he appreciated the gravity of his past actions,‛ and that the court consequently had ‚reservations regarding *Father’s+ ability to make sound decisions in the best interests of the Minor Children.‛ Further, in ruling on Father’s post-trial motion, the district court confirmed that it ‚did not base its ruling on *the illegal activity+ allegation,‛ but rather it ‚considered all evidence,‛ most notably the ‚criminal episode in Maryland.‛ Father does not challenge the court’s findings regarding that Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 6 2017 UT App 24 incident. Thus, the district court’s conclusion that the moral character and emotional stability factors favored Mother was based on a well-reasoned and considered assessment of the credibility of the parties and the weight of the evidence presented on both sides, in which we find no error.

¶10 Father next challenges the district court’s finding that the parties were equally capable of providing personal rather than surrogate care. The court found that Father was working part time on the night shift as a janitor and therefore ‚ha[d] his weekdays available to take care of the Minor Children.‛ However, the court was skeptical that Father could maintain such a work schedule long term because he was underemployed and ‚fore[went] child care while he [was] at work‛ to save money. The court likewise found Mother’s aspiration to be a stay-at-home mother to be economically unreasonable, even after her upcoming remarriage. While the district court recognized that Father was then in the best position to provide personal care because he was working part time at night, it concluded that, in the long term, ‚the most likely scenario is that both parties will need to be gainfully employed on a full-time basis to adequately provide for the needs of themselves and the Minor Children as they mature.‛

¶11 In challenging the court’s conclusion that the personal care factor was neutral, Father focuses primarily on the court’s expression of concern that ‚the young children [were] left unattended during the evening hours‛ while Father was at work. Father lived in a basement apartment in his mother’s (Grandmother’s) home. He put the children to bed before he left for work. There was an external entrance to the apartment, but it was locked while Father was gone. Although the children slept alone in the basement, there was an internal staircase from which they could access the main floor, and Grandmother testified that she could hear the children and attend to their needs if concerns arose. Thus, Father asserts that the district Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 7 2017 UT App 24 court clearly erred in finding that the children were left unattended during the evening hours.

¶12 Although the court suggested that the children were left ‚unattended‛ while Father was at work, it clearly recognized and considered the fact that Grandmother was present in the home. Nevertheless, the court was ‚not convinced that in the event of emergency the Minor Children would be timely and adequately protected and cared for.‛ We are not persuaded that such a finding was clearly erroneous in light of the evidence. While Father asserts that the court’s ruling essentially concludes that ‚anyone caring for minor children must sleep on the same level of the house as the children,‛ the fact that the basement was delineated as a separate living space, both physically and in the children’s minds, albeit with ready access via an internal staircase, makes this situation somewhat different from that of a typical dedicated caregiver sleeping on a separate level of a single-family home. As the court observed in its ruling on the post-trial motion, Father ‚made it a point during his testimony, that although he resided in the basement of his mother’s home, it was in a separate 1300 square foot, two-bedroom apartment, with a separate entrance.‛ Grandmother similarly testified that although the children were welcome in her part of the house, she and Father ‚encourage[d] the children to . . . own their space and use their door to the outside‛ and, further, that the children understood that ‚dad’s house‛ and ‚grandma’s house‛ were separate.

¶13 Given these circumstances, the court’s skepticism about whether the children had adequate care during the night was not clearly erroneous. This is especially so as the court’s concern was expressed in the context of comparing Mother’s and Father’s households and their long-term financial conditions and did not amount to an affirmative finding that the children would be at serious risk with Father. Indeed, the court concluded that the Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 8 2017 UT App 24 relative ability of the parties to provide personal versus surrogate care favored Father in the short term.

¶14 Further, the court’s determination that Father’s employment situation was unsustainable relied not only on his inability to afford adequate child care when he was at work, but also on the fact that Father had to live with Grandmother in order to ‚accommodate his part-time earnings.‛ Although Father maintains that he could continue working part time and living with Grandmother indefinitely, Grandmother herself testified that she did not anticipate Father and the children living in her basement long term. She stated that although she had no deadline for Father and the children to move out of her home, she hoped that Father would become ‚self-sustaining at some point[,]‛ and she and Father had talked about Father getting ‚his own place‛ ‚somewhere in the near future.‛ Thus, even setting aside the question of whether the children were adequately cared for at night when Father was working, the court did not exceed its discretion in determining that Father’s part-time employment and living situation were unsustainable and that he would eventually need to seek full-time employment that would limit his ability to provide personal care for the children. Accordingly, we conclude that there was an adequate basis in the evidence to support the court’s determination that the surrogate care factor currently favored Father because of his availability due to part-time work but would be neutral in the long run because of the instability of his financial situation. See In re B.R., 2007 UT 82, ¶ 12, 171 P.3d 435 (‚When a foundation for the court’s decision exists in the evidence, an appellate court may not engage in a reweighing of the evidence.‛).

¶15 Father also challenges the basis for the district court’s related conclusion that the parties’ relative financial conditions favored Mother. Father argues that the district court inappropriately favored Mother’s ‚step-parent household‛ over Father’s ‚multigenerational household‛ by taking into account Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 9 2017 UT App 24 the income of Mother’s fiancé when analyzing her financial circumstances but refusing to ‚also consider Grandmother’s income in Father’s favor.‛ While Grandmother was effectively subsidizing Father’s living expenses by letting him live in her basement for only $200 per month, she indicated that she expected Father to move out ‚in the near future.‛ As the district court observed in its ruling on the post-trial motion, ‚neither [Father] nor [Grandmother] presented evidence that [Grandmother] contributed financially to the care/support of the Minor Children.‛ (Footnote omitted.) Thus, the court did not err in failing to consider Grandmother’s income in analyzing Father’s financial situation because there was no basis for the court to conclude that Grandmother planned to make long-term financial contributions to the children’s care as Mother’s fiancé planned to do.

¶16 Father next challenges the district court’s ruling that the children should change schools and attend school in Mother’s neighborhood. His argument rests on the assertion that the district court relied primarily on published school quality rankings to determine which school the children should attend rather than considering the emotional impact a change in schools would have on the children. Evidence presented at trial indicated that the children were doing well at their current school, and Father testified that he wanted the children to ‚continue*+ going to the school that they’ve been accustomed to and are doing wonderfully at‛ and that he thought it was important for them to attend a school that is ethnically diverse. But Father did not specifically argue at trial that the children would be emotionally harmed by changing schools. His arguments in the post-trial motion and on appeal rest on his statement that ‚*o+ne of the most traumatic things that can happen to a young child is to change schools.‛ Beyond this bare assertion, however, Father has never attempted to present even general evidence that the effects of changing schools are deep and permanent, let alone specific evidence that his children in Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 10 2017 UT App 24 particular would suffer as a result of a move. Having been presented with no evidence on point, we are unpersuaded by Father’s assertion that the district court should have done more to consider the emotional impact that changing schools would have on the children. See State v. Guard, 2015 UT 96, ¶ 29, 371 P.3d 1 (indicating that an issue ‚must be supported by evidence and relevant legal authority‛ (citation and internal quotation marks omitted)).

¶17 Further, while we acknowledge that a change in schools can be difficult for a child, the transitory distress from such a move does not as a matter of law necessarily outweigh other factors that might impact that child’s well-being. Here, the district court found that the school in Father’s neighborhood was ranked 525th out of 561 elementary schools in the state, while the school in Mother’s neighborhood was ranked 78th. The school in Father’s neighborhood had standardized test scores of 52.53 in language arts and 59.25 in math, whereas the school in Mother’s neighborhood scored 86.30 in language arts and 88.17 in math. Given the significant discrepancy between the academic performance of the two schools, it was within the court’s discretion to determine that, under the particular circumstances, the educational opportunities afforded by the school in Mother’s neighborhood outweighed the benefits of ethnic diversity at the school in Father’s neighborhood, as well as any concerns about how the children would adjust to a change in schools.1

¶18 Finally, Father argues that the court exceeded its discretion in permitting Mother’s fiancé to testify despite his having remained in the courtroom after the witness exclusion 1. This is especially true where the instability of Father’s living situation introduced some uncertainty about whether the children would be able to continue attending their current school. Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 11 2017 UT App 24 rule was invoked. Although the fiancé was on the original witness list, Mother’s counsel did not intend to call him as a witness, which is why he was not excluded from the courtroom when the rule was invoked. Rather, Mother’s fiancé testified at the district court’s own request. After hearing the evidence presented by the parties, some of which focused on the role of the fiancé in the children’s lives, both present and prospective, the judge stated, ‚I think I need to hear from him.‛

¶19 ‚[A] trial court retains considerable ‘discretion to decide whether a [party] will be prejudiced by permitting a witness to testify in the face of a violation of the *witness exclusion+ rule.’‛ State v. Gibson, 2016 UT App 15, ¶ 13, 366 P.3d 876 (first and second alterations in original) (quoting State v. Carlson, 635 P.2d 72, 74 (Utah 1981)). ‚The purpose of the [witness exclusion] rule is to prevent witnesses from being influenced or tainted by the testimony of other witnesses, or other evidence adduced at trial.‛ State v. Curtis, 2013 UT App 287, ¶ 22, 317 P.3d 968 (citations and internal quotation marks omitted). Thus, ‚to show that a trial court abused its discretion in allowing a witness to testify despite a violation of the exclusionary rule, the [objecting party] carries ‘the onus of showing’ prejudice,‛ Gibson, 2016 UT App 15, ¶ 13 (quoting Carlson, 635 P.2d at 74), ‚and, in particular, must demonstrate that the witness ‘changed *his or her+ testimony’ in some material way because of what [he or she] heard,‛ id. (quoting State v. McGrath, 749 P.2d 631, 634 (Utah 1988)). In addition, ‚rulings on evidence are looked upon with a greater degree of indulgence when the trial is to the court than when it is to the jury‛ ‚because it can be safely assumed that the trial court will be somewhat more discriminating in appraising both the competency and the rulings properly to be given evidence.‛ State v. Park, 404 P.2d 677, 679 (Utah 1965). Given the deference we grant and the fact that Father has failed to present evidence suggesting that Mother’s fiancé altered his testimony based on what he heard in the trial, we are not persuaded that Pope v. Pope 20150869-CA 12 2017 UT App 24 the fiancé’s testimony resulted in unfair prejudice or that the court exceeded its discretion in permitting the testimony.

¶20 We reject Father’s challenges to the district court’s findings on the various custody factors. The district court’s detailed findings of fact were not clearly erroneous and were sufficient to support its determination that granting primary custody to Mother and ordering the children to change schools was in the children’s best interests. Further, because Father has failed to show that he was unfairly prejudiced by the testimony of Mother’s fiancé, the court did not exceed its discretion in permitting the testimony.

¶21 Affirmed.

Affirmed

The reviewing court determined that the lower court committed no reversible error and upheld the judgment.