Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120
Case Summary
This appeal concerns a district court’s denial of a former husband’s petition to terminate his twenty-six-year alimony obligation on the ground that his ex-wife had cohabited with a new romantic partner after their divorce. Following a two-day evidentiary hearing that included private investigator surveillance, witness testimony, and documentary evidence, the district court found that although the ex-wife and her boyfriend were in a romantic, intimate relationship and had spent substantial time together — including many overnights during the summer of 2021 — their relationship lacked the hallmarks of a shared residence, shared finances, or joint decision-making needed to establish cohabitation. The Utah Court of Appeals affirmed, holding that under either the pre-2022 common-law cohabitation test or the Utah Legislature’s 2022 statutory definition of “cohabit,” the ex-wife was properly found to be a “visitor” rather than a “resident” at her boyfriend’s home, and that the district court’s determination — a fact-intensive mixed question entitled to substantial appellate deference — was not erroneous under either standard.
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Facts
- Marriage, Divorce, and Alimony: Julie and Glen married in 1994 and divorced in January 2021; the divorce decree ordered Glen to pay Julie alimony for twenty-six years, the length of the marriage.
- The Petition to Modify: In January 2022, Glen filed a petition to modify the decree, alleging that private investigators had documented Julie “cohabit[ing] in a relationship akin to marriage” with another man (Boyfriend) between March and August 2021, and seeking termination of his alimony obligation on that basis.
- Julie’s Response: Julie acknowledged she was dating Boyfriend and had stayed overnight at his home “as a guest,” but denied ever “living” there, claiming she and her adult daughter resided at her parents’ home after she sold the marital home following the divorce.
- The Evidentiary Hearing and Findings: At a two-day hearing in September and October 2022, the court heard extensive testimony, including that Julie spent 31 of 47 nights at Boyfriend’s home between late June and mid-August 2021 (per the private investigator) and vacationed with him during that period, but also found that Julie lacked a key to Boyfriend’s home, did not stay there when he was absent, was not on his lease, did not share finances, bank accounts, credit cards, or property with him, and continued to use her parents’ address for her bills, insurance, banking, and driver’s license.
- Post-Petition Conduct: The court also considered evidence of the parties’ conduct in 2022 (after the petition was filed but tried by the parties’ consent), including Glen’s testimony that he observed Julie’s car at Boyfriend’s home on 26 different nights between late February and mid-August 2022, weighed against Julie’s and her father’s testimony about her time at her parents’ home and Boyfriend’s testimony that he and Julie “do not live together.”
- The Ruling Below: The district court applied the traditional common-law cohabitation analysis rather than the new statutory definition of “cohabit” that took effect May 4, 2022 (reasoning the new definition did not displace the common law and should not apply retroactively to Glen’s earlier-filed petition), and concluded Glen had not proven by a preponderance of the evidence that Julie and Boyfriend were in a relationship “akin” to marriage, denying his petition to terminate alimony.
Issues of the Case
Glen, as Appellant, raised one issue on appeal, and the Court of Appeals additionally resolved Julie’s request for attorney fees on appeal — two issues in total.
- Issue 1: Cohabitation Determination — Termination of Alimony
- Issue 2: Attorney Fees on Appeal (Julie’s Request)
The Utah Court of Appeals affirmed the district court’s cohabitation determination and denial of Glen’s petition to terminate alimony (Issue 1), and denied Julie’s request for attorney fees incurred on appeal (Issue 2).
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Alimony — Cohabitation
1. Cohabitation Determination — Termination of Alimony
Claim on Appeal: Glen argued the district court erred in concluding he failed to prove by a preponderance of the evidence that Julie cohabited with Boyfriend, which would have entitled him to mandatory termination of his alimony obligation.
Holding: — Affirmed. The Court of Appeals held it need not decide whether the pre-2022 common-law cohabitation test or the 2022 statutory definition governed, because Julie and Boyfriend did not cohabit under either standard. Under the common-law “hallmarks of marriage” test, their relationship — while romantic, intimate, and involving substantial overnight stays in summer 2021 — lacked a shared residence, shared finances, joint decision-making, or shared property. Under the 2022 statutory definition (turning on whether the couple “resided together”), the court held Julie was a “visitor” rather than a “resident” at Boyfriend’s home, based on the absence of a key, her practice of staying there only when Boyfriend was present, the absence of any substantial personal belongings at his home, and her continued use of her parents’ address for her mail, bills, and official documents.
Statutory Authority: Utah Code § 30-3-5(14)(a) (now Utah Code § 81-4-505(3)(a), termination of alimony), mandating termination of alimony upon proof of post-divorce cohabitation; Utah Code § 30-3-5(1)(a) (now § 81-4-501(2), definitions for part), the 2022 statutory definition of “cohabit” as living together or residing together on a regular basis in the same residence in a romantic or sexual relationship; former Utah Code § 30-3-5(9) (1995) and § 30-3-5(6) (1994), earlier historical versions of the cohabitation/residency termination provision, discussed for background.
Standard of Review:
- Substantial deference for the cohabitation determination, a fact-intensive mixed question of fact and law; correctness for questions of statutory interpretation.
Controlling Cases:
- Scott v. Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶¶ 34-36, 472 P.3d 897 (“hallmarks of marriage” test; holistic inquiry; deference standard for cohabitation determinations).
- Myers v. Myers, 2011 UT 65, ¶¶ 24, 29, 266 P.3d 806 (preponderance-of-the-evidence burden; hallmarks of a marital relationship).
- McFarland v. McFarland, 2021 UT App 58, ¶ 19, 493 P.3d 1146 (correctness standard for statutory interpretation).
- State v. Barlow, 153 P.2d 647, 651 (Utah 1944) (early common meaning of “cohabit” as living together as husband and wife).
- Haddow v. Haddow, 707 P.2d 669, 672-74 (Utah 1985) (foundational “resident versus visitor” distinction; time alone does not establish residency).
- Hill v. Hill, 968 P.2d 866, 868-69 (Utah Ct. App. 1998) (applying the Haddow cohabitation definition to alimony termination).
- Pendleton v. Pendleton, 918 P.2d 159, 160-61 (Utah Ct. App. 1996) (affirming a cohabitation finding based on a key, unrestricted access, and shared meals and personal effects).
- Sigg v. Sigg, 905 P.2d 908, 917 (Utah Ct. App. 1995) (applying the Haddow formulation).
- Knuteson v. Knuteson, 619 P.2d 1387, 1389 (Utah 1980) (“reside” means to dwell permanently or have a settled abode for a time).
- Keene v. Bonser, 2005 UT App 37, ¶ 11, 107 P.3d 693 (same definition of “reside”).
- Lilly v. Lilly, 2011 UT App 53, ¶ 12, 250 P.3d 994 (“residence” and “reside” are open to diverse interpretations depending on context).
- Maxfield v. Herbert, 2012 UT 44, ¶ 31, 284 P.3d 647 (a term transplanted from prior legal sources carries its established meaning).
- Croft v. Morgan County, 2021 UT 46, ¶ 32, 496 P.3d 83 (disjunctive “or” and the surplusage canon of statutory construction).
- In re J.E., 2023 UT App 3, ¶ 40, 524 P.3d 1009 (undefined statutory terms interpreted according to plain, ordinary meaning).
Why It Matters: This holding confirms that under both the common-law and the 2022 statutory cohabitation standards, the “residency” component turns not merely on the amount of time a person spends at another’s home, but on whether that time is spent “as a resident” — evidenced by possession of a key, the ability to come and go independent of the other person’s presence, storage of personal belongings, integration of finances or property, and use of the address for official purposes — rather than “as a visitor,” however frequent or regular the visits.
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Attorney Fees — Appellate Fees
2. Attorney Fees on Appeal (Julie’s Request)
Claim on Appeal: Although not challenging the district court’s denial of her attorney fee request below, Julie asked the Court of Appeals to award her, in the first instance, the attorney fees she incurred defending the appeal, relying on Utah Code § 30-3-3(1).
Holding: — Denied. The Court of Appeals held that under binding Utah Supreme Court precedent, a former spouse’s efforts to resist a motion to terminate alimony are not compensable under § 30-3-3’s plain language, and accordingly declined Julie’s request.
Statutory Authority: Utah Code § 30-3-3(1) (now Utah Code § 81-1-203, award of costs and attorney and witness fees).
Standard of Review:
- Not separately articulated; application of controlling Utah Supreme Court precedent construing the fee statute.
Controlling Cases:
- Scott v. Scott, 2017 UT 66, ¶ 32, 423 P.3d 1275 (efforts to resist a motion to terminate alimony are not compensable under Utah Code section 30-3-3’s plain language).
Why It Matters: This holding clarifies that Utah Code § 81-1-203’s (formerly § 30-3-3’s) attorney-fee provision does not extend to fees incurred defending against a petition to terminate alimony, foreclosing a fee award to the prevailing payee spouse in that specific procedural posture even though fees might otherwise be available in other domestic-relations contexts.
Rules of Evidence
Utah Codes
Termination of Alimony — Cohabitation
Governs: Requires a court to terminate an order that a party pay alimony to a former spouse if the paying party establishes that the former spouse has cohabited with another individual after the alimony order issued, even if the cohabitation has ended by the time the motion to terminate is filed.
Application in Kinsey: Glen invoked this mandatory termination provision, but the Court of Appeals affirmed the district court’s finding that Glen failed to prove Julie cohabited with Boyfriend, so the mandatory termination provision was never triggered.
Quote:
“[A] court shall terminate an order that a party pay alimony to a former spouse if the party establishes that, after the order for alimony is issued, the former spouse cohabits with another individual even if the former spouse is not cohabiting with the individual when the party paying alimony files the motion to terminate alimony.” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 10 (quoting Utah Code § 30-3-5(14)(a))].
Utah Legislature:
Definitions for Part — “Cohabit”
Governs: Defines “cohabit,” for purposes of alimony determinations, to mean living together, or residing together on a regular basis, in the same residence and in a relationship of a romantic or sexual nature — a definition added by the Utah Legislature effective May 4, 2022.
Application in Kinsey: The Court of Appeals analyzed this new statutory definition as an alternative basis for its decision, focusing (as the parties had briefed) on whether Julie and Boyfriend “resided together,” and concluding they did not.
Quote:
“‘[C]ohabit’ means ‘to live together, or to reside together on a regular basis, in the same residence and in a relationship of a romantic or sexual nature.'” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 15 (quoting Utah Code § 30-3-5(1)(a))].
Utah Legislature:
Validity of Marriage Not Solemnized — Cohabitation Element
Governs: Lists cohabitation as one of the elements required to establish a valid unsolemnized (common law) marriage.
Application in Kinsey: The court cited this provision to illustrate the several distinct domestic-law contexts in which the term “cohabit” appears, contrasting the unsolemnized-marriage context with the alimony-termination context at issue in this case.
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“[C]ohabitation is one of the elements for an unsolemnized marriage determination.” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 12 (citing Utah Code § 30-1-4.5(1)(c))].
Utah Legislature:
Bigamy — Cohabitation Element
Governs: Lists cohabitation as one of the elements of the crime of bigamy under the Utah Criminal Code.
Application in Kinsey: Cited as another example of a distinct domestic-law context in which “cohabitation” carries legal significance, separate from the alimony-termination analysis in this case.
Quote:
“[I]t is also one of the elements of the crime of bigamy.” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 12 (citing Utah Code § 76-7-101(4)(a))].
Utah Legislature:
Who May Adopt — Cohabitation Bar
Governs: Prohibits, subject to certain exceptions, the adoption of a child by an individual who is cohabiting.
Application in Kinsey: Cited as another example of a distinct domestic-law context in which cohabitation carries legal consequences, illustrating the breadth of contexts in which the term’s definition matters.
Quote:
“[C]ohabitation . . . can be grounds for denying an adoption . . . (prohibiting the adoption of a child ‘by an individual who is cohabiting,’ barring certain exceptions).” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 12 (citing Utah Code § 78B-6-117(3))].
Utah Legislature:
https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title81/Chapter13/81-13-S203.html
Cohabitant Abuse Protective Orders
Governs: Authorizes courts to issue Cohabitant Abuse Protective Orders for individuals in a qualifying cohabitant relationship.
Application in Kinsey: Cited as a further example of a distinct domestic-law context — protective orders — in which the term “cohabit” or “cohabitant” carries independent legal significance.
Quote:
“[I]t . . . constitutes one of the relationship types for which a protective order may be granted.” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 12 (citing Utah Code §§ 78B-7-601 to -609)].
Utah Legislature:
Award of Costs and Attorney and Witness Fees
Governs: Authorizes a court in a domestic relations action to award costs and attorney and witness fees.
Application in Kinsey: Julie relied on this provision to request attorney fees incurred on appeal; the Court of Appeals denied the request based on controlling precedent holding that resisting a motion to terminate alimony is not compensable under this statute.
Quote:
“In reliance on Utah Code section 30-3-3(1), however, she asks us to award her the attorney fees she incurred on appeal in the first instance.” [Kinsey v. Kinsey, 2024 UT App 120, ¶ 34 n.6].
Utah Legislature:
Rules of Civil Procedure
Utah Code of Judicial Administration
Utah Rules of Appellate Procedure
Utah Rules of Professional Conduct
Case Cited
- Scott v. Scott, 2020 UT 54, 472 P.3d 897 (hallmarks-of-marriage test; holistic cohabitation inquiry; substantial deference on appeal).
- Myers v. Myers, 2011 UT 65, 266 P.3d 806 (preponderance-of-the-evidence burden for establishing cohabitation).
- McFarland v. McFarland, 2021 UT App 58, 493 P.3d 1146 (correctness standard for statutory interpretation).
- State v. Barlow, 153 P.2d 647 (Utah 1944) (early common meaning of “cohabit”).
- Haddow v. Haddow, 707 P.2d 669 (Utah 1985) (foundational resident-versus-visitor distinction for cohabitation/residency).
- Hill v. Hill, 968 P.2d 866 (Utah Ct. App. 1998) (applying the Haddow cohabitation definition).
- Pendleton v. Pendleton, 918 P.2d 159 (Utah Ct. App. 1996) (cohabitation found based on key, unrestricted access, and shared meals and belongings).
- Sigg v. Sigg, 905 P.2d 908 (Utah Ct. App. 1995) (applying the Haddow formulation).
- Knuteson v. Knuteson, 619 P.2d 1387 (Utah 1980) (definition of “reside”).
- Keene v. Bonser, 2005 UT App 37, 107 P.3d 693 (same definition of “reside”).
- Lilly v. Lilly, 2011 UT App 53, 250 P.3d 994 (“residence” and “reside” open to diverse interpretations).
- Maxfield v. Herbert, 2012 UT 44, 284 P.3d 647 (transplanted legal terms carry their established meaning).
- Croft v. Morgan County, 2021 UT 46, 496 P.3d 83 (disjunctive “or” and surplusage canon).
- In re J.E., 2023 UT App 3, 524 P.3d 1009 (plain, ordinary meaning for undefined statutory terms).
- Scott v. Scott, 2017 UT 66, 423 P.3d 1275 (attorney fees not available for resisting a motion to terminate alimony).
Litigation and Appellate Strategy
Reversal Predictor
- A cohabitation finding is more likely to be affirmed on appeal where it is supported by findings that the alleged cohabitant possessed a key, came and went independent of the homeowner’s presence, moved substantial personal belongings into the home, or was on the lease or shared other property or finances (see Pendleton, Scott).
- A cohabitation finding is more likely to be reversed, or a no-cohabitation finding affirmed, where the district court’s own findings show the alleged cohabitant lacked a key, only stayed when the homeowner was present, kept few or no personal items there, and maintained an independent address for official correspondence (see Haddow).
Mandatory Factor Checklist
- Hallmarks of marriage under Scott v. Scott: a shared residence; an intimate relationship; a common household involving shared expenses and shared decisions; the length and continuity of the relationship; the amount of time the couple spends together; the nature of their activities; and whether they spend vacations and holidays together.
- Residency-specific factors under Haddow, Pendleton, and Scott: possession of a key; the ability to come and go independent of the other person’s presence; storage of personal belongings or furniture at the home; shared bank accounts, credit cards, or property ownership; and use of the address for mail, bills, and official documents.
- Statutory definition under Utah Code § 81-4-501(2) (formerly § 30-3-5(1)(a)): living together, or residing together on a regular basis, in the same residence, in a relationship of a romantic or sexual nature.
Signal Cluster (High-Risk Appeal Profile)
A no-cohabitation finding is well-insulated from reversal — and, conversely, an argument for cohabitation faces a high-risk profile — where the record combines: (1) no key to the other person’s home; (2) a pattern of staying only when the other person is present; (3) no substantial personal belongings moved into the other person’s home; (4) no shared finances, bank accounts, or property; and (5) continued use of an independent address for official correspondence. Together, these markers show the relationship lacks the integration Haddow requires for residency, regardless of the frequency of overnight stays.
Strategy Insight
Frame the residency question around “resident versus visitor” status rather than raw overnight counts. A party seeking to prove cohabitation should build evidence of integration — keys, belongings, address changes, shared finances — rather than relying primarily on surveillance-based overnight tallies, since Haddow makes clear that “time alone” does not control the inquiry.
Insights
Utah-Only Jurisprudence
This opinion is entirely Utah-only jurisprudence, tracing eighty years of Utah case law on “cohabitation” and “residency” — from State v. Barlow (1944) through Haddow v. Haddow (1985), Pendleton v. Pendleton (1996), Scott v. Scott (2020), and In re J.E. (2023). There is no out-of-state or federal authority cited anywhere in the opinion.
Doctrinal Anchors (Utah Supreme Court)
- Scott v. Scott, 2020 UT 54, 472 P.3d 897 — the modern “hallmarks of marriage” test and holistic-inquiry framework; the central doctrinal anchor for the common-law analysis.
- Haddow v. Haddow, 707 P.2d 669 (Utah 1985) — establishes the foundational “resident versus visitor” distinction and holds that time spent at another’s home does not by itself establish residency; directly controls the residency analysis under both the common-law and statutory tests.
- Myers v. Myers, 2011 UT 65, 266 P.3d 806 — establishes the preponderance-of-the-evidence burden on the party seeking to terminate alimony.
The Most Important Holding
The most significant holding is that “residency” — a component of cohabitation under both the common-law test and the 2022 statutory definition — turns not on the amount of time a person spends at another’s home, but on whether that time is spent “as a resident”: evidenced by possession of a key, the ability to come and go independent of the other person’s presence, storage of personal belongings, integration of finances or property, and use of the address for official correspondence, rather than “as a visitor,” however frequent or regular the visits.
Reversal Based on Legal Error vs. Factual Error
There was no reversal here; the district court’s cohabitation determination was affirmed as a well-supported, fact-intensive mixed question entitled to substantial deference. The opinion illustrates that even striking factual evidence favoring one party — such as 31 overnight stays out of 47 nights during a single summer — will not compel a cohabitation finding where the countervailing evidence (no key, no shared finances, continued separate mailing address) establishes the absence of the other, more determinative hallmarks.
Avoiding an Unnecessary Statutory-Interpretation Dispute
The Court of Appeals expressly declined to resolve whether the pre-2022 common-law test or the 2022 statutory definition of “cohabit” governs, because the result was the same either way. This is a useful technique for practitioners: where a legal question is genuinely close or unresolved, framing an argument to prevail under multiple potentially applicable standards increases the likelihood that a court can resolve the case without wading into a contested, unresolved question of statutory interpretation.
Attorney-Fee Limitation in Termination Proceedings
Utah Code § 81-1-203 (formerly § 30-3-3) does not authorize an award of attorney fees to a payee spouse for resisting a payor’s motion to terminate alimony, per Scott v. Scott, 2017 UT 66. This is a fee-shifting gap that practitioners representing alimony recipients should account for when budgeting for termination litigation, since success on the merits alone will not support a fee award in this specific procedural posture
Practitioner Takeaways
- Trial Lawyers Representing Alimony Payors: Do not rely primarily on overnight-count or surveillance evidence; build the case around the residency hallmarks — a key, unrestricted access, personal belongings at the home, shared finances or property, and use of the address for official correspondence.
- Trial Lawyers Representing Alimony Payees: Affirmatively establish the absence of a key, a pattern of visits conditioned on the other person’s presence, continued use of an independent address for mail and official documents, and financial independence — these facts proved decisive here despite substantial overnight-stay evidence.
- Appellate Lawyers: Where a case could be decided under either an older common-law standard or a newer statutory definition, consider framing arguments to prevail under both, since a court may (as here) avoid resolving which standard governs if the result is the same either way.
Majority Opinion
2024 UT App 120 THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS
JULIE KINSEY, Appellee, v. GLEN D. KINSEY, Appellant. Opinion No. 20230088-CA
Filed August 22, 2024 Third District Court, Salt Lake Department
The Honorable Dianna M. Gibson No. 204907035
K. Bradley Carr, Attorney for Appellant Cory R. Wall, Attorney for Appellee
JUDGE RYAN D. TENNEY authored this Opinion, in which JUDGES RYAN M. HARRIS and AMY J. OLIVER concurred.
TENNEY, Judge:
¶1 Glen Kinsey and Julie Kinsey divorced in 2021.1 The next year, Glen filed a petition asking the district court to terminate his alimony obligations, claiming that Julie had cohabited with another man. After an evidentiary hearing, the district court issued a ruling rejecting Glen’s petition. Glen now appeals that decision. For the reasons set forth below, we affirm. 1. Because the parties share the same last name, we’ll follow our usual practice and refer to them by their first names, with no disrespect intended by the apparent informality. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 2 2024 UT App 120
BACKGROUND Petition to Modify
¶2 Julie and Glen were married in 1994 and divorced in January 2021. In the divorce decree, Glen was ordered to pay Julie alimony for twenty-six years, which was the length of the marriage.
¶3 In January 2022, Glen filed a petition to modify the decree. In his petition, Glen alleged that he had retained two private investigators and that they had obtained evidence showing that between March 2021 and August 2021, Julie and another man (Boyfriend) had “cohabited in a relationship akin to marriage.”2 Relying on this evidence, Glen asked the district court to terminate his alimony obligations.
¶4 Julie opposed the petition. In her memorandum, Julie acknowledged that she was “in a relationship” with Boyfriend, that they were currently “dating,” and that she had “stayed overnight” at his home “as a guest.” But even so, Julie claimed that she had never “liv[ed] at his residence,” instead claiming that she and her adult daughter had resided at her parents’ home after she sold the marital home following the divorce. For these and other reasons, Julie argued that she and Boyfriend had not cohabited and that Glen’s alimony obligations should not be terminated.
¶5 The district court held a two-day evidentiary hearing on the issue in September and October 2022. At that hearing, the parties called several witnesses and introduced evidence about 2. The parties both referred to the man in question by name in their briefs, and the district court did so as well in its decision. But in the interest of privacy, we see no need to include his name in this published opinion. For simplicity, and seeing no better option, we’ll refer to him as Boyfriend, while recognizing that this may not have been the label that Julie used when describing him. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 3 2024 UT App 120 the nature of the relationship between Julie and Boyfriend, as well as about other factors potentially relevant to a cohabitation determination.
3 Ruling
¶6 The court subsequently issued a written ruling denying Glen’s petition. At the outset of its findings of fact, the court found that “[s]ometime after the divorce, Julie began dating [Boyfriend].” It also found that Julie and Boyfriend had each admitted that their relationship was “romantic and intimate.” In the remainder of its findings of fact, the court summarized the testimony (and it sometimes, though not always, resolved conflicts in the testimony) about various aspects of the relationship between Julie and Boyfriend. These findings included the following: • Overnights in the summer of 2021. The court noted that Glen’s private investigator had testified that Julie spent 31 out of 47 nights at Boyfriend’s home between the end of June and the middle of August of 2021, and it also noted that there had been testimony that Julie and Boyfriend had spent several nights together on vacation during that same timeframe. • Overnights later in 2021 and in 2022. The court then recounted (but did not necessarily resolve) the sometimesconflicting testimony about how often Julie and Boyfriend spent nights together at Boyfriend’s home after the summer of 2021. On Glen’s side of this dispute, the court 3. At the hearing, the parties introduced evidence of some events that occurred in 2022 after Glen filed the petition to modify. And as will be seen shortly, the district court entered findings relating to post-petition conduct in its ruling. On appeal, Glen argues that the post-petition conduct was “tried by consent,” and Julie does not dispute that contention in her appellate brief. As a result, we’ll consider the post-petition conduct throughout this opinion. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 4 2024 UT App 120 noted that Glen had testified that he had driven by and seen “Julie’s car parked in front of [Boyfriend’s] home” in the late evening or very early morning hours on 26 different days between late February and mid-August 2022. On Julie’s side, the court noted that Julie had testified that she spent “more nights” at her parents’ home than she did at Boyfriend’s, as well as that Julie’s father had testified that he “typically has breakfast and dinner with [Julie]” and that she did not “spend[] more time at [Boyfriend’s] home than his.” The court also noted Boyfriend’s testimony that Julie “stays at his home likely 3-4 times a week,” as well as Boyfriend’s insistence that they “do not live together.” From all this, the court found that after the period from June to August 2021, “the evidence, at best, shows that” Julie stayed at Boyfriend’s “home regularly each week, but it does not show” that they “consistently” spent nights together at a rate as high as they had during the summer of 2021. • Access and use of residences. The court found that Julie did not have a key to Boyfriend’s home and that Boyfriend did not have a key to the home of Julie’s parents. The court also found that Julie “does not stay at [Boyfriend’s] place when he is not there.” • Property. In the written briefing, the parties had disputed whether and to what extent Julie stored her personal property at Boyfriend’s home. In its findings, the court only addressed the extent to which Julie had stored her “wave runners” there. It noted that Glen had testified that the wave runners had been stored at Boyfriend’s home throughout the summer of 2021, but the court also noted (and seems to have credited) testimony that Boyfriend was fixing the wave runners that summer and that they were more typically stored at the home of Julie’s sister. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 5 2024 UT App 120 • Finances. The court found that Julie and Boyfriend “do not share finances and do not pay each other’s expenses.” The court also found that Julie and Boyfriend “do not share bank accounts or credit cards” and “do not own property together.” The court further found that Boyfriend leases his home and that “Julie is not on the lease.” • Julie’s bills and other documents. The court found that Julie used her parents’ address as her address for such things as her “bills, statements and mail related to her phone, car and health insurance, retirement, bank, pet hospital, Costco [membership], GMC recall notice, medical information, and driver’s license.”
¶7 In its conclusions of law, the district court then ruled that Glen had failed to prove by a preponderance of the evidence that Julie “was or is cohabiting with [Boyfriend].” In doing so, the court recognized that a new statutory definition for the term “cohabit” became effective on May 5, 2022. But the court decided to assess the question under “the traditional cohabitation analysis” from the common law. It did so for two reasons. First, the court saw no indication that the new “statutory definition was intended to call into question or vacate Utah’s common law cohabitation analysis . . . or eliminate[] from consideration the factors historically deemed to be indicative of ‘cohabitation.’” And second, the court noted that Glen had filed his petition in January 2022 (before the new statutory definition went into effect), and the court saw no basis for applying the new statutory definition retroactively to conduct that predated the statute’s enactment.
¶8 Applying pre-2022 caselaw, the court observed that because the “clear” “purpose of alimony is economic in nature,” alimony should only be terminated for post-divorce cohabitation if there is evidence of not just “a sexual relationship between two individuals living under the same roof” but also “a relationship ‘akin’ to marriage.” Drawing on the findings set forth above, the court concluded that there was “no evidence to show that Julie Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 6 2024 UT App 120 and Boyfriend ‘shared’ his residence,” nor was there “evidence to show that [Julie’s] financial dependency has been eliminated by another more permanent romantic relationship.” In the court’s view, there was “no evidence that they shared finances, household expenses, accounts, property, or made any decisions together.” From all this, the court concluded that Glen had failed to establish that Julie and Boyfriend were “in a relationship akin to that of a husband and wife.” It accordingly concluded that Julie had not cohabited with Boyfriend, and it thus denied Glen’s request to terminate his alimony obligations.
ISSUE AND STANDARD OF REVIEW
¶9 Glen challenges the district court’s conclusion that Julie had not cohabited with Boyfriend. A “cohabitation determination is a fact-intensive determination of a mixed question of fact and law that is entitled to substantial deference on appeal.” Scott v. Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 34, 472 P.3d 897. But to the extent that this determination turns on the interpretation of a statute, the “proper interpretation and application of a statute is a question of law which we review for correctness.” McFarland v. McFarland, 2021 UT App 58, ¶ 19, 493 P.3d 1146 (quotation simplified).
ANALYSIS
¶10 By statute, a court shall terminate an order that a party pay alimony to a former spouse if the party establishes that, after the order for alimony is issued, the former spouse cohabits with another individual even if the former spouse is not cohabiting with the individual when the party paying alimony files the motion to terminate alimony. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 7 2024 UT App 120 Utah Code § 30-3-5(14)(a). When a person seeks to terminate his or her alimony obligations under this statute, the person must establish cohabitation by a preponderance of the evidence. See Myers v. Myers, 2011 UT 65, ¶ 29, 266 P.3d 806.
¶11 On appeal, Glen challenges the district court’s conclusion that he failed to establish that Julie cohabited with Boyfriend. Before addressing Glen’s argument, we first note that the parties disagree about which definition of “cohabit” we should use in our analysis.
¶12 The term “cohabit” (or its noun-form “cohabitation”) comes into play in several aspects of domestic law. As noted, cohabitation is grounds for terminating an alimony award. Elsewhere, cohabitation is one of the elements for an unsolemnized marriage determination. See Utah Code § 30-1- 4.5(1)(c). And it is also one of the elements of the crime of bigamy, see id. § 76-7-101(4)(a); can be grounds for denying an adoption, see id. § 78B-6-117(3) (prohibiting the adoption of a child “by an individual who is cohabiting,” barring certain exceptions); and constitutes one of the relationship types for which a protective order may be granted, see id. §§ 78B-7-601 to -609 (authorizing “Cohabitant Abuse Protective Orders”).
¶13 Up until 2022, the term was not defined by statute in the divorce context. Instead, its meaning had been developed through the common law. Early use of the term in the broader domestic context explained that “the word ‘cohabit’ as used in the statutes has had the ordinary common meaning––to live together as husband and wife.” State v. Barlow, 153 P.2d 647, 651 (Utah 1944); see also Haddow v. Haddow, 707 P.2d 669, 671 (Utah 1985) (citing dictionaries for the proposition that “cohabitation” means “to live together as husband and wife” (quotation simplified)). In 1995, the statute allowing a former spouse to terminate alimony was amended to include the term “cohabitating” for the first time. See Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 8 2024 UT App 120 Utah Code § 30-3-5(9) (1995).4 Because the statutory amendment did not define the term, courts applied the meaning of “cohabitation” that had been established by this existing line of domestic law cases. See, e.g., Hill v. Hill, 968 P.2d 866, 868–69 (Utah Ct. App. 1998) (supporting the practice of applying the “Haddow definition of cohabitation” in cases determining the termination of alimony); Pendleton v. Pendleton, 918 P.2d 159, 160 (Utah Ct. App. 1996) (relying on the Haddow formulation to determine if alimony should be terminated); Sigg v. Sigg, 905 P.2d 908, 917 (Utah Ct. App. 1995) (same).
¶14 In 2020, our supreme court drew on this same line of cases and held that the “key question” in a cohabitation case was whether the couple had “entered into a relationship akin to that generally existing between husband and wife.” Scott v. Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 35, 472 P.3d 897 (quotation simplified). But the supreme court also recognized that it could be “difficult to define” the precise contours of this relationship. Id. (quotation simplified). To assist lower courts, the supreme court drew upon past cases and “identifie[d]” the “general hallmarks” of such a relationship. Id. (quotation simplified); see also Myers, 2011 UT 65, ¶ 24. These hallmarks included “a shared residence, an intimate relationship, . . . a common household involving shared expenses and shared decisions, . . . the length and continuity of the relationship, the amount of time the couple spends together, the nature of the activities the couple engages in, and whether the couple spends 4. Specifically, the statute stated, “Any order of the court that a party pay alimony to a former spouse terminates upon establishment by the party paying alimony that the former spouse is cohabitating with another person.” Utah Code § 30-3-5(9) (1995). Previously, the statute allowed termination of alimony “upon establishment by the party paying alimony that the former spouse [was] residing with a person of the opposite sex” unless the person receiving alimony could show “that that relationship or association [was] without any sexual contact.” Id. § 30-3-5(6) (1994). Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 9 2024 UT App 120 vacations and holidays together.” Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 36 (quotation simplified).
¶15 In 2022, the Utah Legislature added a new provision to Utah Code section 30-3-5 (which governs various aspects of an alimony determination) that, for the first time, defined the term “cohabit” for alimony decisions. See Act of Mar. 23, 2022, ch. 263, § 1, 2022 Utah Laws 1883, 1883. This definition became effective on May 4, 2022. See id. Under this definition, “cohabit” means “to live together, or to reside together on a regular basis, in the same residence and in a relationship of a romantic or sexual nature.” Utah Code § 30-3-5(1)(a).
¶16 As noted, Glen filed his petition to modify in January 2022, and much of the evidence that the district court considered predated May 4, 2022. But as also noted, the court considered evidence of conduct that occurred after May 4, 2022, as well.
¶17 This leads to the initial question posed by the parties in this appeal: whether this case should be assessed under the common law test or instead under the test set forth in the 2022 statute. In Glen’s view, (1) the new statutory definition “clearly and unequivocally express[ed] the legislature’s intended meaning of the term” to the exclusion of the prior case law, and (2) the new definition should apply retroactively because his petition to modify was still pending at the time the amendment went into effect. By contrast, Julie argues that (1) the new definition is consistent with prior caselaw (i.e., that it did not abrogate the common law definition), and (2) if the statutory definition somehow did abrogate prior caselaw, it should not be retroactively applied.
¶18 We need not decide whether the common law test or instead the new statutory definition governs this case. This is so because no matter which approach is used, we see no error in the court’s cohabitation determination. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 10 2024 UT App 120 A. Common Law Test
¶19 Again, under the common law, the “key question” is whether Julie and Boyfriend had “entered into a relationship akin to that generally existing between husband and wife.” Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 35 (quotation simplified). And under this approach, we look to see if the “hallmarks of marriage” were present. Id. (quotation simplified). These hallmarks include a shared residence, an intimate relationship, . . . a common household involving shared expenses and shared decisions, . . . the length and continuity of the relationship, the amount of time the couple spends together, the nature of the activities the couple engages in, and whether the couple spends vacations and holidays together. Id. ¶ 36 (quotation simplified).
¶20 On this record, there’s no question that Julie and Boyfriend were in a relationship by the summer of 2021—indeed, Julie and Boyfriend each admitted that they had been “romantic and intimate.” It’s undisputed that the two vacationed together in 2021. And it’s also undisputed that they spent many nights together.
¶21 But even so, their relationship was still missing many of the other “hallmarks of marriage.” To recap some of the key findings outlined above: Julie didn’t have a key to Boyfriend’s home; the two did not make financial decisions together and did not have shared bank accounts or credit cards; there was no evidence that they made any other “decisions together” either; Julie was not on the lease to Boyfriend’s home, nor did they own any other property together; Julie typically had breakfast and dinner with her father at his home (rather than having those meals with Boyfriend at his home); and Julie’s mail (including important correspondence such as her bills and medical statements) was Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 11 2024 UT App 120 sent to the home she shared with her parents, not to Boyfriend’s home.
¶22 Based on all this, the district court concluded that Julie and Boyfriend were not cohabiting under the common law test. And as indicated, this “determination is a fact-intensive determination of a mixed question of fact and law that is entitled to substantial deference on appeal.” Id. ¶ 34. In light of both the district court’s findings and the deference we give to its determination, we see no basis for overturning this decision.5 B. Statutory Definition
¶23 Under the statutory definition that became effective in May 2022, “cohabit” means “to live together, or to reside together on a regular basis, in the same residence and in a relationship of a romantic or sexual nature.” Utah Code § 30-3-5(1)(a).
¶24 We first note that this test refers to both living together and residing together. We recognize that it may be possible that the legislature thought these two concepts refer to different things. After all, they’re separated by the word “or,” which is usually 5. As indicated, the common law test also turned in some measure on whether the couple was residing or living together. See Scott v. Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 36, 472 P.3d 897; Haddow v. Haddow, 707 P.2d 669, 671 (Utah 1985). In Scott, however, our supreme court cautioned that residency did not function as a standalone or “threshold element that must be met before other hallmarks of marriage” could be considered, instead holding that all of the hallmarks of marriage (including a common residence) were considered together “in a holistic inquiry.” 2020 UT 54, ¶ 40. In the statutory analysis below, we conclude that Julie and Boyfriend did not reside together, and we ground that conclusion in the common law’s definition of the term “residence.” If this case is analyzed under the common law test, our conclusion that there was no common residence provides additional support for our conclusion that Julie and Boyfriend did not cohabit. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 12 2024 UT App 120 understood to be disjunctive, and the surplusage canon would likewise suggest that these separate terms should be given separate meanings. See Croft v. Morgan County, 2021 UT 46, ¶ 32, 496 P.3d 83. But on the other hand, the terms have obvious similarity, so in context, we think it’s also possible that the legislature intended for them to function synonymously in a mutually reinforcing, “belt and suspenders” kind of way. If there is such a difference, however, the parties haven’t meaningfully briefed what it would be. Instead, in their briefs, the parties focused on whether Julie and Boyfriend “resided” together. Taking the parties’ lead, we likewise focus on whether Julie and Boyfriend resided together. Because we conclude that they did not, and in light of how this case has been presented to us on appeal, we have no need to opine on whether it is possible to live together without residing together.
¶25 When the legislature added a definition for the term “cohabit,” it did not also add a definition for the term “reside.” As a result, we must make our best effort to interpret this term, and we do so “according to the plain meaning of its text,” applying “the meaning” of the word in its “ordinary daily usage.” In re J.E., 2023 UT App 3, ¶ 40, 524 P.3d 1009 (quotation simplified). The potential difficulty here is that the “terms ‘residence’ and ‘reside’ are open to a diverse array of usages and interpretations” and the term “resident” likewise “has different shades of meaning, depending upon its context.” Lilly v. Lilly, 2011 UT App 53, ¶ 12, 250 P.3d 994 (quotation simplified). But in cases that predate the 2022 statute, our supreme court repeatedly provided guidance for what “reside” and “residency” mean in the cohabitation and alimony context. And this matters—after all, “when a word or phrase is transplanted from another legal source, whether the common law or other legislation, it brings the old soil with it.” Maxfield v. Herbert, 2012 UT 44, ¶ 31, 284 P.3d 647 (quotation simplified). Seeing no indication to the contrary, we think it appropriate to assume that when the legislature defined the term “cohabit” to mean, in part, that the people in question were “resid[ing] together,” the legislature did so advisedly and Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 13 2024 UT App 120 incorporated the prior definitions of “reside” that have been used by Utah’s appellate courts in this same context.
¶26 As set forth in those cases, the word “reside” means “to dwell permanently or for a length of time” or “to have a settled abode for a time.” Knuteson v. Knuteson, 619 P.2d 1387, 1389 (Utah 1980) (quotation simplified); see also Keene v. Bonser, 2005 UT App 37, ¶ 11, 107 P.3d 693. This refers to something that is “more than a temporary stay.” Haddow, 707 P.2d at 672. It’s “not a sojourn, nor a habit of visiting, nor even remaining with for a time.” Id. at 673 (quotation simplified). Instead, “the term implies continuity.” Id. (quotation simplified). In this sense, our supreme court has “contrast[ed] the status of a ‘resident’ with that of a ‘visitor.’” Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 45 (quotation simplified).
¶27 Past cases illustrate how this distinction plays out. In Haddow, our supreme court considered the question of whether a former spouse had developed a “common residency” with her new partner after her divorce. 707 P.2d at 673. Although it was “clear from the record” that the new partner “spent a substantial amount of time” at the ex-wife’s home, the supreme court held that the two were not residing together. Id. The supreme court noted that there was “no finding” from the district court that the new partner “either spent any time at the home when [the exwife] was not there or had a key to the house.” Id. The supreme court thought “[t]hese circumstances seem[ed] particularly significant,” “since a resident will come and go as he pleases in his own home, while a visitor, however regular and frequent, will schedule his visits to coincide with the presence of the person he is visiting.” Id. The supreme court also pointed out that the new partner had not “move[d] any furniture into” the ex-wife’s home or kept “any personal items” there “other than toiletry articles, a few items of clothing[,] . . . and one picture album.” Id. This, too, suggested to the supreme court that the ex-wife and her new partner did not share a common residency—and, thus, were not cohabiting. See id. Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 14 2024 UT App 120
¶28 By contrast, in Pendleton v. Pendleton, this court affirmed a district court’s decision that an ex-wife had resided with her new boyfriend. 918 P.2d 159, 160 (Utah Ct. App. 1996). We noted that the boyfriend stayed with the ex-wife “ninety percent of the time when he was in town,” “had his own key,” and “came and went from [the ex-wife’s] home three to four times daily, even when she was not there.” Id. at 161. We further noted that the couple tended to eat “almost all meals together” and that the boyfriend kept “clothing and other personal effects” at the ex-wife’s home— details that we believed supported a cohabitation determination. Id.
¶29 Our supreme court reached a similar conclusion in Scott. There, the ex-wife’s new partner had made an offer on a new home “on behalf of both himself and [the ex-wife].” Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 49. After the new partner purchased this home, the ex-wife “moved herself and substantial personal items into” it, and in doing so, she “made decisions about decorations and furnishings.” Id. ¶ 50. Moreover, the ex-wife and her new partner both “had keys and full access to the home.” Id. In light of these facts, the supreme court affirmed the district court’s determination that this new home was a “shared residence.” Id. ¶ 51.
¶30 Applying these principles here, we affirm the district court’s determination that Julie and Boyfriend did not reside together. As noted, the district court found that Julie does not have a key to Boyfriend’s home and that Julie “does not stay at [Boyfriend’s] place when he is not there.” These are the very same facts that the supreme court thought were “particularly significant” when it held that there was no common residency (and, by extension, no cohabitation) in Haddow. 707 P.2d at 673. Moreover, there was no finding from the district court that Julie had moved any substantial portion of her personal belongings into Boyfriend’s home. Aside from the wave runners (which, under the court’s findings, were arguably at Boyfriend’s home just so that Boyfriend could fix them), there was no finding from the district court that Julie kept anything at Boyfriend’s home at Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 15 2024 UT App 120 all. In addition, Julie was not on the lease, did not receive her mail there, and commonly ate breakfast and dinner with her father at his home.
¶31 Despite all this, Glen argues that Julie did reside at Boyfriend’s home. Glen’s argument relies heavily on the amount of nights that Julie spent with Boyfriend. We certainly agree that the amount of time that a person spends at another person’s home (particularly overnights) will be a key factor in determining whether the other home has become the person’s residence. But in Haddow, our supreme court held that “time alone” does not control the inquiry; instead, what ultimately matters is whether the time there was “spent as a resident.” Id. at 674 (emphasis added, quotation otherwise simplified). In other words, even if a person spends “a substantial amount of time” at another home, a court may still conclude that the person is not residing there based on additional facts and circumstances about the nature of that person’s relationship to both the home and its other occupants. Id. at 673. In Scott, our supreme court accordingly stressed that the residency question “focuses on a person’s status and place in the home.” 2020 UT 54, ¶ 45.
¶32 On this record, it’s clear that Julie spent a substantial amount of time at Boyfriend’s home, particularly in the summer months of 2021. And it’s also clear that she did so because she was in a romantic and intimate relationship with him. But again, Julie did not stay at Boyfriend’s home unless Boyfriend was there, she did not have a key, she had no ownership interest in his home, she commonly ate elsewhere, she did not receive her mail there, and she did not keep her personal belongings there. From all this, it seems clear enough that she did not “come and go” at her leisure, Haddow, 707 P.2d at 673, nor did she regard Boyfriend’s home as her “settled abode,” Knuteson, 619 P.2d at 1389 (quotation simplified). Instead, it appears that she was there as a visitor, not as a resident. See Scott, 2020 UT 54, ¶ 45.
¶33 Although the district court assessed the cohabitation analysis using the common law test, it specifically determined Kinsey v. Kinsey 20230088-CA 16 2024 UT App 120 that Julie and Boyfriend did not “share[]” Boyfriend’s “residence.” And as indicated, this is a determination that receives “substantial deference on appeal.” Id. ¶ 34. On this record, we see no basis for reversing that determination. As a result, even if this case is evaluated under the new statutory definition of “cohabit,” this determination is sufficient to support the court’s ruling. We therefore affirm the district court’s conclusion that Julie did not cohabit with Boyfriend.
CONCLUSION
¶34 We affirm the district court’s determination that Glen did not establish that Julie and Boyfriend cohabited. As a result, we also affirm its denial of Glen’s petition to modify the decree to terminate his alimony obligations.6 6. The district court denied Julie’s request for attorney fees below, and Julie does not challenge that denial on appeal. In reliance on Utah Code section 30-3-3(1), however, she asks us to award her the attorney fees she incurred on appeal in the first instance. But our supreme court has held that an ex-spouse’s “efforts to resist [a] motion to terminate alimony are not compensable under Utah Code section 30-3-3’s plain language.” Scott v. Scott, 2017 UT 66, ¶ 32, 423 P.3d 1275. We accordingly decline Julie’s request.